What's on your mind right now???
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[quote='Lana' pid='456' dateline='1407756703']
I don't understand: you're affraid that he will leave or you wánt him to leave?
I'm sorry you feel unhappy about your faher.
[/quote]Her father has been abusive towards her so she wants him to leave her alone.
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[quote='Emotion' pid='457' dateline='1407902235']
[quote='Lana' pid='456' dateline='1407756703']
I don't understand: you're affraid that he will leave or you wánt him to leave?
I'm sorry you feel unhappy about your faher.
[/quote]Her father has been abusive towards her so she wants him to leave her alone.
[/quote]Oh that's very horrible!
I wish Crystal all the peace she needs and deserves. Hug! -
This is a test. I pressed the button 'new post'. Previously it would look like I replied to my own message. I hope I won't this time..
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Had a good day yesterday with two amazing dogs! A friend was looking after them and I borrowed them for an afternoon. They're so cuddly! I know one of them for a long time, and were're getting along great! He's so playful ánd cuddly. He's a mix of German shepherd and labrador. I want a dog when I have the space and when I can afford it. I'm affraid I won't find a dog like him! I love him! Do you guys love dogs?
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oke.. Emotion: now you can see what I mean: I pressed 'new post' again (just like with the test message) but now it looks like I replied on my previous message. That's weird. -
[quote='Lana' pid='460' dateline='1407929828']
[quote='Emotion' pid='457' dateline='1407902235']
[quote='Lana' pid='456' dateline='1407756703']
I don't understand: you're affraid that he will leave or you wánt him to leave?
I'm sorry you feel unhappy about your faher.
[/quote]Her father has been abusive towards her so she wants him to leave her alone.
[/quote]Oh that's very horrible!
I wish Crystal all the peace she needs and deserves. Hug!
[/quote]Thank you, Lana...
Yes, what Emotion said sums things up perfectly. Nevertheless, he hasn't bothered us lately. Probably, he'll learn his lesson -
Oke, last night I heared new info about a murder investigation that my friend is very closely tight to (it's her father's death, her stepmother is suspect). I know, it's clichee. My mom and I used to watch a lot of crime series and at some point I didn't like it anymore. Murder can be sensational and interesting puzzle, but when it happens so close (although I never met the father) it is so unbelievable that I just can't wrap my head arround it. I have a headache of the emotional impact of everything she told me last night. Last time I talked to her they dug up her father (which is pretty disturbing to think about in itself) because her stepmother was suspect. Now, with the new facts it's 100% sure that the stepmother killed at least 1 of her 2 former husbands. To imagine that she almost remarried last year before she was arrested is just turning my stomach. So strange to imagine all this.. It's scary and hurtful and it's pinching my brain: why? how? I can't wrap my head arround it.
The most disturbing image in my head is seeing the stepmother googling in preperation of his death. I google everyday. It's so ordinary and feels so familiar. Then, to imagine that she was (this is what police found) googling 'sunflower bouquet', 'grave stones', 'how long does it take before (type of painkiller) leaves the body' the day before he died. They found four sedatives/painkillers in the liver of the father of my friend.
This was not some impulse thing. She forged a life insurence. Her previous husband died under suspicious circumstances too. There were signs, but the alarming thing is that the stepmother almost got away with both deaths while on the verge of a third marriage! It a bad thing that such beautiful things a marriage and googling are now placed in whole different perspective. It's like a black widdow spider.
Oh, no what's even worse: the women (an other word that is way too pretty to describe her) has FOUR children!!! The first husband that died was their father..
The only slightly uplifting fact is: my friend always had a weird feeling with that women (not that she ever expected this) and that people who knew her closely weren't deceived by her lies (anymore): the parents of the stepmother helped my friend file the report to the police when they all had a agut feeling that something was off. -
[quote='Lana' pid='480' dateline='1408880826']
Oke, last night I heared new info about a murder investigation that my friend is very closely tight to (it's her father's death, her stepmother is suspect). I know, it's clichee. My mom and I used to watch a lot of crime series and at some point I didn't like it anymore. Murder can be sensational and interesting puzzle, but when it happens so close (although I never met the father) it is so unbelievable that I just can't wrap my head arround it. I have a headache of the emotional impact of everything she told me last night. Last time I talked to her they dug up her father (which is pretty disturbing to think about in itself) because her stepmother was suspect. Now, with the new facts it's 100% sure that the stepmother killed at least 1 of her 2 former husbands. To imagine that she almost remarried last year before she was arrested is just turning my stomach. So strange to imagine all this.. It's scary and hurtful and it's pinching my brain: why? how? I can't wrap my head arround it.
The most disturbing image in my head is seeing the stepmother googling in preperation of his death. I google everyday. It's so ordinary and feels so familiar. Then, to imagine that she was (this is what police found) googling 'sunflower bouquet', 'grave stones', 'how long does it take before (type of painkiller) leaves the body' the day before he died. They found four sedatives/painkillers in the liver of the father of my friend.
This was not some impulse thing. She forged a life insurence. Her previous husband died under suspicious circumstances too. There were signs, but the alarming thing is that the stepmother almost got away with both deaths while on the verge of a third marriage! It a bad thing that such beautiful things a marriage and googling are now placed in whole different perspective. It's like a black widdow spider.
Oh, no what's even worse: the women (an other word that is way too pretty to describe her) has FOUR children!!! The first husband that died was their father..
The only slightly uplifting fact is: my friend always had a weird feeling with that women (not that she ever expected this) and that people who knew her closely weren't deceived by her lies (anymore): the parents of the stepmother helped my friend file the report to the police when they all had a agut feeling that something was off.
[/quote]Whoa, that is so surreal. To think that someone would just nonchalantly kill another person, not even a stranger, but their 'loved' ones is just unbelievable. So what happened to her? Is she in jail or awaiting trial? Is your friend okay emotionally? I imagine this was very hard on her.
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[quote='Lana' pid='480' dateline='1408880826']
Oke, last night I heared new info about a murder investigation that my friend is very closely tight to (it's her father's death, her stepmother is suspect). I know, it's clichee. My mom and I used to watch a lot of crime series and at some point I didn't like it anymore. Murder can be sensational and interesting puzzle, but when it happens so close (although I never met the father) it is so unbelievable that I just can't wrap my head arround it. I have a headache of the emotional impact of everything she told me last night. Last time I talked to her they dug up her father (which is pretty disturbing to think about in itself) because her stepmother was suspect. Now, with the new facts it's 100% sure that the stepmother killed at least 1 of her 2 former husbands. To imagine that she almost remarried last year before she was arrested is just turning my stomach. So strange to imagine all this.. It's scary and hurtful and it's pinching my brain: why? how? I can't wrap my head arround it.
The most disturbing image in my head is seeing the stepmother googling in preperation of his death. I google everyday. It's so ordinary and feels so familiar. Then, to imagine that she was (this is what police found) googling 'sunflower bouquet', 'grave stones', 'how long does it take before (type of painkiller) leaves the body' the day before he died. They found four sedatives/painkillers in the liver of the father of my friend.
This was not some impulse thing. She forged a life insurence. Her previous husband died under suspicious circumstances too. There were signs, but the alarming thing is that the stepmother almost got away with both deaths while on the verge of a third marriage! It a bad thing that such beautiful things a marriage and googling are now placed in whole different perspective. It's like a black widdow spider.
Oh, no what's even worse: the women (an other word that is way too pretty to describe her) has FOUR children!!! The first husband that died was their father..
The only slightly uplifting fact is: my friend always had a weird feeling with that women (not that she ever expected this) and that people who knew her closely weren't deceived by her lies (anymore): the parents of the stepmother helped my friend file the report to the police when they all had a agut feeling that something was off.
[/quote]She sounds like a psychopath. Tell your friend to stay away from that woman. Sooner, later one way or another, they'll find enough evidence to send her to prison (where she belongs). I wouldn't mess with that woman, though. She could be dangerous.
Awww, Lana. I'm sorry to hear you were upset and overwhelmed about this. Unfortunately, we have to accept the fact that there are evil people out there and no one's exempt from becoming a victim
